I did it.
Are you chasing a goal but can’t seem to find your way there?
You’ve dreamed about starting that project, talking to that person, saying yes to that invitation, landing that job — or finally feeling confident in that body that’s waiting to shine through.
And maybe, after trying again and again, you’ve started to wonder if heaven itself is blocking your way.
But no, love — God isn’t against you.
He’s aligning the path, teaching you how to walk with faith instead of fear.
Do you remember those early school lessons?
The ones that always started with the basics: What? Who? Where? How? When? Why?
Life still speaks that same language.
Only now, your Teacher is divine — and every question you ask is shaping the person you’re becoming.
Question! to get an answer.
Start making questions and…answer your own questions; without a line to follow you will never know where to go, and I’m not talking about a full well planned decision, it is more like a direction, a clue.
Take a notebook, write down, make it real. Give yourself a clue and your brain a little help. I assure you that you will feel better after you write down everything, all of the charges you were taking on your head will be released by this and you will be able to see clearly.
If you still feel lost, here you got some examples on how to start questioning:
Most of time is about making the right question. To get an answer, you need to ask. And once you have answered your questions, everything will start arriving like magic. Serendipia!
What do I do to…, who do I ask this…,where should I go to., how do I do this or that? and so on.
Precious baby steps.
Remember that before you started walking, you were giving the baby steps, and actually before… started on your knees, probably how you are feeling right now, huh. Beautiful, JUST GIVE THE BABY STEPS.
Do you want to start a diary? start writing the date down on your notebook, I assure you that at least one idea will come to your mind; maybe something related to that pen you are using, another something related to numbers on the date and day, some noise on the background you are suddenly hearing.
And once you-started- it will actually start. Feel the flow.
Do you want to start exercising your body? put your shoes on, play some music, imagine how sexy you will look dancing at it after a couple weeks, now give me 6 squats.
Do you want to start new studies? go on the web and search for a school, some online lessons, maybe you’ll find a summary to feel motivated, or at least google will start to bomb you with those sneaky ads about it, or the sellers from the web where you filled the contact form will constantly call you or WhatsApp you, and will remember you to do it.
Do you want to start reading? take a book, read the title, tomorrow you will add few more lines haha… Start!
Keep on.
And of course, keep going… But go slowly, take another step.
Calm down a little with yourself but avoid getting too comfy, and remember that an habit to be build, takes around 3 weeks, which seems a lot,but, almost if you close and open your eyes again, there you go! 3 weeks!
One feet, and then the other. Did you see how you cannot give two steps at a time? unless you are an expert, you can start jumping or running. But if you are here, it is because you are not, yet!
And hey, take note that you are starting 1 or 2 activities at a time, if you go and eat the half of the cake, soon you will be full. SLICE IT.
To avoid leaving everything at the 3rd day because you started a lot (and feeling guilt after) understand you are a human, not a robot. That is why we build robots and still, we are the wonder.
And because you have read everything, pts pts *highlights* – at the end of the day, we people tend to loose power to make good decisions, brain has to manage this and as part of a human body, introducing new habits makes it tired; understanding it would give you a little help to understand yourself, too.
In another blog entry we will talk about it.
See you on the next post!
Erandy.
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